{"id":67414,"date":"2021-10-20T07:46:47","date_gmt":"2021-10-20T11:46:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/?p=67414"},"modified":"2021-11-04T21:53:17","modified_gmt":"2021-11-05T01:53:17","slug":"second-date-ideas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/love-and-lust\/second-date-ideas\/","title":{"rendered":"12 Second Date Ideas That Don&#8217;t Suck from a Dating Coach"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So you <a href=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/love-and-lust\/where-to-meet-women\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"41001\" data-lasso-id=\"218498\">met an awesome girl<\/a> (or matched with one on a dating app).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You got together for a first date&#8212;and it went so well that you&#8217;re already planning on asking her out again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>But what makes a good second date?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The second date is important because it represents the transition from first impressions to a more solidified idea of the potential of your dynamic together.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"standout-block set-nofollow\">\n\t<style>\n\t.standout-block {\n\t\tmargin-bottom: 3.1rem;\n\t\tmargin-top:3.2rem;\n\t}\n<\/style>\n  <div>\n    <p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>A poorly planned or badly executed second date can ruin your chances with a <a href=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/love-and-lust\/high-value-woman\/\" data-lasso-id=\"218480\">high value woman<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --> <!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>By contrast, nailing the second date and making it awesome will help to firmly establish you as a solid, high value dating option in her mind.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>  <\/div>\n\t\t <\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ve been on more second dates than I can count.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ve had some great ones, and I&#8217;ve had some trainwrecks.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ve planned second dates that absolutely crushed it&#8212;and I&#8217;ve winged it on second dates where I showed up unprepared and ruined my chances.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And in this post, I&#8217;m going to dig deep into my own personal repertoire to bring you the top 12 second date ideas that I use, in hopes of giving you your best shot at proving that you&#8217;re a high value man and helping you to be successful in your dating life.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a bonus, I&#8217;m also going to give you an inside look at the strategies I use on each one of these second date ideas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let&#8217;s get crackin\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"counter-hierarchy\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\">Skip Ahead<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class=\"ez-toc-list\"><li><a href=\"#12_good_second_date_ideas\" title=\"12 Good Second Date Ideas\">12 Good Second Date Ideas<\/a><ul><li><a href=\"#1_your_house_for_dinner\" title=\"1. Your House for Dinner&nbsp;\">1. Your House for Dinner&nbsp;<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#2_a_wine_tasting_-_at_your_place\" title=\"2. A Wine Tasting - At Your Place\">2. A Wine Tasting - At Your Place<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#3_an_on-the-town_on-foot_adventure\" title=\"3. An On-The-Town, On-Foot Adventure\">3. An On-The-Town, On-Foot Adventure<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#4_dinner_at_the_park\" title=\"4. Dinner at the Park\">4. Dinner at the Park<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#5_bartend_together\" title=\"5. Bartend Together\">5. Bartend Together<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#6_cook_a_meal_together\" title=\"6. Cook a Meal Together\">6. Cook a Meal Together<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#7_go_somewhere_with_a_beautiful_view\" title=\"7. Go Somewhere with a Beautiful View\">7. Go Somewhere with a Beautiful View<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#8_share_an_interest_with_her\" title=\"8. Share an Interest with Her\">8. Share an Interest with Her<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#9_go_on_a_short_road_trip\" title=\"9. Go On a Short Road Trip\">9. Go On a Short Road Trip<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#10_share_your_favorite_music\" title=\"10. Share Your Favorite Music\">10. Share Your Favorite Music<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#11_discover_something_new_together\" title=\"11. Discover Something New Together\">11. Discover Something New Together<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#12_go_swimming_or_hiking\" title=\"12. Go Swimming or Hiking\">12. Go Swimming or Hiking<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li><a href=\"#3_best_second_date_ideas_when_its_raining\" title=\"3 Best Second Date Ideas When It&#039;s Raining\">3 Best Second Date Ideas When It's Raining<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#how_to_suggest_second_date_ideas\" title=\"How to Suggest Second Date Ideas\">How to Suggest Second Date Ideas<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#conclusion\" title=\"Conclusion\">Conclusion<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<h2>12 Good Second Date Ideas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3>1. Your House for Dinner&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img width=\"800\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Mother-Teresa-Quote-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-67418\" srcset=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Mother-Teresa-Quote-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Mother-Teresa-Quote-1-400x250.jpg 400w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Mother-Teresa-Quote-1-150x94.jpg 150w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Mother-Teresa-Quote-1-768x480.jpg 768w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Mother-Teresa-Quote-1-40x25.jpg 40w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" title=\"\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This is by far my absolute favorite second date idea. In fact, this is the option I use 90% of the time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s pretty simple.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Invite her over to dinner, cook her your signature dish, pour a few glasses of wine, and <a href=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/love-and-lust\/conversation-topics\/\" data-lasso-id=\"218481\">engage in some conversation<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Show off your house, show her that you\u2019re a high value man by inviting her into your frame and space and displaying <a href=\"https:\/\/joshuasigafus.com\/high-value-man\/\" data-lasso-id=\"218482\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">high value markers<\/a>, and make your move after dinner is over and you get her cuddled up on the couch.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Simple, yet effective.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>My Strategy<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>I make sure to light some candles and incense to set the mood. I also make sure that my house is clean, and that I spritz a bit of my cologne on the bedspread before she arrives.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sharing a meal together gives you the opportunity for connection and to learn about one-another. It also gives you the opportunity to showcase your impressive cooking skills.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>2. A Wine Tasting &#8211; At Your Place<\/h3>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>Once again, this is a second-date idea where you invite her over to your house.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But this one works really well if the time for the date falls between meals or later at night (after dinner time).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pick out a few bottles of wine, and have her over to try them with you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re not a wine guy, that\u2019s ok. Check out our <a href=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/live-and-learn\/wine-for-men\/\" data-lasso-id=\"218483\">gentleman\u2019s guide to wine<\/a> for some guidance.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Set the mood, serve her some crackers and cheese, and put on some music.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Treat it like a real wine-tasting. Ask her what she thinks of the different options&#8212;but also engage her in conversation between sips and samples.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not sure what to talk about? Here are some <a href=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/love-and-lust\/hypothetical-questions\/\" data-lasso-id=\"218484\">awesome conversation starters<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>My Strategy<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The most important thing to remember here is this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>DO NOT get smashed.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you\u2019re planning to escalate and go for the hookup, DO NOT get her drunk.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Drink slowly and easily. Spend most of your time flirting with her, <a href=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/love-and-lust\/how-to-tease-a-girl\/\" data-lasso-id=\"218485\">lightly teasing her<\/a>, learning about her, and just enjoying the atmosphere together.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eventually work your way up to kissing her to \u2018see how the wine tastes on her lips.\u2019&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a classic move that works every time (as long as <a href=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/love-and-lust\/how-to-tell-if-a-girl-likes-you\/\" data-lasso-id=\"218486\">she\u2019s actually into you<\/a>).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-affiliate-plugin-lasso\"><div class=\"lasso-container\">\n    <!-- LASSO DISPLAY BOX (https:\/\/getlasso.co) -->\n\t<div class=\"lasso-display lasso-flow lasso-url-brightcellars\">\n\n\t\t<!-- BADGE -->\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"lasso-badge\">\n\t\t\t\tOur Favorite Wine Subscription\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t<!-- LASSO TITLE, PRICE, DESC, AND IMAGE -->\n\t\t<div class=\"lasso-box-1\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"lasso-image\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/brightcellars\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-lasso-box-trackable=\"true\" data-lasso-id=\"66948\" data-lasso-name=\"Bright Cellars\">\n\t\t\t\t<img src=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Model-opens-first-case-of-Bright-Cellars.jpg\" height=\"500px\" width=\"500px\" class=\"rocket-lazyload\" alt=\"Bright Cellars\" title=\"\">\n\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<!-- BUTTONS -->\n\t\t<div class=\"lasso-box-2\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"lasso-title\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/brightcellars\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-lasso-box-trackable=\"true\" data-lasso-id=\"66948\" data-lasso-name=\"Bright Cellars\">\n\t\t\t\t\tBright Cellars\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"lasso-description\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p>If you want to learn more about wine without racking your brain or your schedule trying to learn more about wine, Bright Cellars is a tremendous solution.<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<a class=\"lasso-button-1\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/brightcellars\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-lasso-box-trackable=\"true\" data-lasso-id=\"66948\" data-lasso-name=\"Bright Cellars\">\n\t\t\t\tSign Up Now\t\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"lasso-button-2\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/live-and-learn\/bright-cellars-review\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-lasso-button=\"2\" data-lasso-box-trackable=\"true\" data-lasso-id=\"218499\" data-lasso-name=\"Bright Cellars\">\n\t\t\t\t\tRead Our Review\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\n\t\t\t<div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"lasso-disclosure\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span>If you click this link and make a purchase, we earn a commission at no additional cost to you.<\/span>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"lasso-date\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<!-- BRAG -->\n\t\t\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3>3. An On-The-Town, On-Foot Adventure<\/h3>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>This is my second favorite type of second date, and is generally the option I&#8217;ll use if we already slept together on the first date.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This date basically involves picking her up, heading to a fun part of town where there&#8217;s lots to do (bars, clubs, restaurants, entertainment, etc.), and then just walking around looking for an \u2018in the moment\u2019 adventure.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The trick here is not to make a solid plan.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The plan is simply this:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You go to a fun part of town, hang out together, and find cool stuff to do.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>My Strategy<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The strategy here is to kindle excitement and attraction through <em>experiencing the unknown together<\/em>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/all-women-long-taste-adventure\" data-lasso-id=\"218487\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Women love it<\/a> when men take them on adventures.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Believe it or not, women grow tired of the same old boring dinner dates.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They want to feel alive.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They want to date men who create an impact and make them<em> feel something<\/em>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And one of the best ways to prime her to feel the emotional impact of the unknown is to get her out of the usual \u2018boring date zone&#8217; and take her somewhere where there&#8217;s a strong possibility for adventure and discovery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>4. Dinner at the Park<\/h3>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>I go for this option when I&#8217;m seeing a woman I really enjoy talking to and want to engage with on a more intellectual level.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The great thing about this second date idea is that it gets the two of you alone in a relaxing setting where you can just share a meal together and really enjoy each other\u2019s company.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My style for this type of date is simple:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol><li>I pick her up.&nbsp;<\/li><li>We go to my favorite taco place.&nbsp;<\/li><li>We get some incredible street tacos.&nbsp;<\/li><li>Then, I take her to this beautiful lakeside park not far from my house.&nbsp;<\/li><li>We find an isolated picnic table with a great view, eat our tacos, and just talk.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h4>My Strategy<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The strategy here is to get away from the distractions, hustle, and bustle of other humans.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Getting her alone will create the opportunity for intellectual intimacy.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this private setting, you can really dig in and get her to open up about herself.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Secondly, eating dinner outside at a beautiful park creates a very romantic atmosphere.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This then creates the perfect opportunity for romantic hand holding, slow walks around the lake, and even watching the sunset.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>5. Bartend Together<\/h3>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>This date idea works really well as an afternoon date.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ask her what her favorite cocktail is. Then, ask her if she knows how to make it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If she says yes, invite her over to make you one, and tell her that you\u2019ll return the favor by mixing one of your favorite drinks for her.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Use this opportunity to create something together, to learn about each other, to flirt, and just to have fun with it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>My Strategy<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The strategy behind this date idea involves creating something enjoyable and unique together.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A lot of people associate their favorite drinks with comfortability.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes, people are even emotionally attached to their favorite drink or beverage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can use this opportunity to learn about her. The combination of creating together and doing something fun will lead to the perfect atmosphere for escalation and connection.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not a bartender? Not to worry. Check out <a href=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/live-and-learn\/manly-cocktails\/\" data-lasso-id=\"218488\">this guide<\/a> for some delicious cocktail recipes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Quick Tip<\/strong>: Once again, if you\u2019re planning to go for the hookup, don\u2019t get her smashed. Drink lightly for fun, not to get drunk.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>6. Cook a Meal Together<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-twitter wp-block-embed-twitter\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"500\" data-dnt=\"true\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">make me a good coffee, click my candids, read me a poem&#8230;..and I&#39;ll fall for you!!<br>\ud83d\ude42<br>.<br>.<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/aesthetics?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">#aesthetics<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/love?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">#love<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/life?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">#life<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/coffeelovers?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">#coffeelovers<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/books?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">#books<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/candidate?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">#candidate<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/dateidea?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">#dateidea<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/bleedingthoughts?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">#bleedingthoughts<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/PrxXs2eOBU\" target=\"_blank\">pic.twitter.com\/PrxXs2eOBU<\/a><\/p>&mdash; bleeding thots (@ThotsBleeding) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ThotsBleeding\/status\/1394717117220495362?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">May 18, 2021<\/a><\/blockquote><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I like to think of this option as a blended date, falling somewhere between \u2018having her over for dinner\u2019 and \u2018making drinks together.\u2019&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Personally, I like to start this date off by going shopping together.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We plan out the meal, get the ingredients, then head back to my place and create a beautiful gourmet meal together&#8212;complete with plenty of flirting, connecting, engagement, and romance.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>My Strategy<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The magic behind this date idea is that you\u2019ll be working together to create something enjoyable.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When the two of you work side by side and enjoy each-other\u2019s company, you create a vibe that really sets the mood for attraction and connection.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pair this with the emotional attachment to sultry comfort food, and you create an environment that\u2019s ripe for romance.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>7. Go Somewhere with a Beautiful View<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img width=\"800\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Confucius.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-67419\" srcset=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Confucius.jpg 800w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Confucius-400x250.jpg 400w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Confucius-150x94.jpg 150w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Confucius-768x480.jpg 768w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Confucius-40x25.jpg 40w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" title=\"\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>As humans, we have a definitive weakness for beauty.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We love to look at the horizon and appreciate breathtaking landscapes, golden sunsets, trees that change colors with the seasons, glorious mountains, magnificent oceans, etc.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even the busy metropolitan skyline can qualify.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Beautiful views evoke powerful emotions within us that can make us feel a wide range of emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember&#8212;women want to <em>feel <\/em>something.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So what could be better than a romantic dinner, walk, or hike that eventually culminates in a breathtaking view?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This second date idea gives you the perfect context for romance.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>My Strategy<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The key to this one is planning.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll want to scout out the perfect location beforehand, and determine the best time of day for maximum effect.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This date idea works really well because it shows her that:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>You\u2019re willing to put in the effort to plan<\/li><li>You have a keen eye for beauty<\/li><li>You\u2019re willing to take control and pull her into your frame<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a win-win-win, gentlemen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>8. Share an Interest with Her<\/h3>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>Do you have a unique or obscure hobby or interest that she doesn&#8217;t have much experience with?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If so, you could leverage this to schedule a second date where you invite her to go along with you and partake of this interest with you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The trick with this one is to bring her into your frame and share a bit of your life with her.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If a woman likes you, she\u2019s going to want to experience you and learn about you. 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class=\"recommended-single-header-line\"><\/div>\n\n      <a target=\"_blank\" class=\"recommended-single-link\" href=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/live-and-learn\/list-hobbies-men\/\">\n          <span class=\"recommended-single-title\">101 Best Hobbies For Men Of All Ages<\/span><p class=\"small recommended-single-content\">Remember how passionate you were about that &#8216;thing&#8217; when you were younger? Let&#8217;s rediscover that. You&#8217;ll be inspired by this huge list of hobbies for men.<\/p>     <\/a>\n\n        <div class=\"recommended-single-header-line\" style=\"margin-bottom: -0.3rem;\"><\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h4>My Strategy<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Try to choose interests that she may also appreciate.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I play guitar and write songs in my downtime, so I like to break that out for a serenade from time to time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But sometimes, I\u2019ll go above and beyond this to invite her out to an open-mic night with me.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ll buy her some drinks, play some songs, and just share that experience with her.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Women are generally really into this kind of thing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So don\u2019t be afraid to be yourself and invite her along for the ride.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>9. Go On a Short Road Trip<\/h3>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>The idea behind this date is simple.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tell her what time you\u2019re going to pick her up.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Plan out a few stops (a few of your favorite places), roll the windows down, crank up some tunes, and just enjoy hitting the open road together.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This doesn\u2019t have to be a super elaborate date. The idea is to explore and discover things together while making memories and enjoying each other\u2019s company.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>My Strategy<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Personally, I love using car rides to learn more about the woman I\u2019m dating.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ll ask her what music she likes, put it on, and then ask her about her life.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s so much fun to get a woman comfortable in this element, because secrets shared on the open road while driving around late at night tend to be very intimate and vulnerable.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s just something about this energy that really lends to connection and attraction.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>10. Share Your Favorite Music<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img width=\"800\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/William-Shakespeare-quote.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-67420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/William-Shakespeare-quote.jpg 800w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/William-Shakespeare-quote-400x250.jpg 400w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/William-Shakespeare-quote-150x94.jpg 150w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/William-Shakespeare-quote-768x480.jpg 768w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/William-Shakespeare-quote-40x25.jpg 40w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" title=\"\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Once again, this date is going to involve you having her over to your place.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But instead of focusing specifically on drinks or a meal, the focus is simply on sharing your favorite music with one-another.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ll usually extend the invite for this date if we\u2019ve already been talking about music, and if she\u2019s already expressed her love for a certain band or album.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ll say something like this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cWell hey, why don\u2019t you come over on Friday, and we\u2019ll listen to it? We can drink a bit of wine and I\u2019ll cook you dinner. You can give me the \u2018411\u2019 on the songs. We\u2019ll make it a whole thing.\u201d&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>My Strategy<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The strategy here is to tap into the powerful emotions that are evoked when we listen to our favorite songs, albums, and artists.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you combine these powerful feelings with a candlelit atmosphere, talking, connecting, flirting, touching, etc, you create an atmosphere that\u2019s ripe for desire and escalation.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Simply put, it\u2019s romantic as hell&#8212;and women love it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>11. Discover Something New Together<\/h3>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>The idea here is for both of you to go and discover or do something that neither of you has ever experienced before.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A great example of this would be to make plans to visit a museum that neither of you have visited before, to explore a park that neither of you has hiked before, to scope out a part of town that neither of you has explored before, etc.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Need some ideas? Check out <a href=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/love-and-lust\/date-location-ideas\/\" data-lasso-id=\"218489\">this post<\/a> for some awesome new date location inspiration.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>My Strategy&nbsp;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The strategy here is to combine the thrill of adventure and discovery with that special sense of \u2018creating first-time memories together.\u2019&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This isn&#8217;t you introducing her to elements of your life that already existed before.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is you literally taking the time to create new elements and experiences specifically with her.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These are memories that the two of you will share forever, and this is incredibly meaningful to women.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Use it as an opportunity to bond, to get to know each other, and just to experience some life together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>12. Go Swimming or Hiking<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img width=\"800\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/JK-Rowling-Quote.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-67421\" srcset=\"https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/JK-Rowling-Quote.jpg 800w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/JK-Rowling-Quote-400x250.jpg 400w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/JK-Rowling-Quote-150x94.jpg 150w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/JK-Rowling-Quote-768x480.jpg 768w, https:\/\/theadultman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/JK-Rowling-Quote-40x25.jpg 40w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" title=\"\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This may sound really specific&#8212;but hiking and swimming are great date ideas for a set of very specific reasons.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First of all, they both incorporate physical exercise into the mix.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Physical exercise is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/lifestyle\/exactly-why-turned-workout-211713882.html#:~:text=%22Being%20active%20is%20a%20potent,Florida%20Atlantic%20University%2C%20told%20Aaptiv.\" data-lasso-id=\"218490\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a potent aphrodisiac<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So when you expend energy hiking over rocks or swimming in the ocean, you&#8217;re just going to feel great.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But doing it together is also going to give you an incredible opportunity to build up some attraction and chemistry, as well as some good old-fashioned <em>lust<\/em> for each other.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Swimming is really fun because both of you will be dressed down a bit. This\u2019ll give you some hot opportunities for flirting, sexy touching, and just in general physically escalating and building connection with her in a very \u2018skin to skin\u2019 fashion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now hiking takes things in a slightly different direction.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you gear up and hit the trail, you&#8217;ll be embarking on an adventure together where you&#8217;ll have a lot of opportunities for flirting and escalation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, it&#8217;ll also be combined with the excitement of experiencing something new.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This gives you an opportunity to hold her hand, to help her climb over rocks, to tease her a little bit, to put her on your back and give her a piggyback ride&#8212;all kinds of amazing opportunities to just escalate, flirt, and have fun.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>My Strategy<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The sexual energy of the physical activity, combined with the adventure of doing a new activity together, will place both of you into a situation where attraction and chemistry are highly likely to spring to life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The key to this one is simply this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t be afraid to escalate.<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you balk, keep your hands to yourself, and\/or otherwise fail to engage with her as more than a friend during these activities, you&#8217;re going to find yourself with a one-way ticket to the friendzone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the flipside, if you can hold masculine frame, show her that you&#8217;re confident, and escalate properly&#8212;you&#8217;re going to learn very quickly just how much she&#8217;s into you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And it&#8217;ll be totally worth it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>3 Best Second Date Ideas When It&#8217;s Raining<\/h2>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>In my way of thinking, the best second date ideas when you\u2019re expecting rain are options that won\u2019t require the two of you to run around outside.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She probably won\u2019t want to ruin her makeup, and it\u2019s a lot more fun to get cozy inside than to get wet and cold while trying to go out for drinks or dinner.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Therefore, my three favorite options for rainy-day second dates are:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol><li>Your house for dinner<\/li><li>A wine tasting at your house<\/li><li>Cooking a meal together<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2>How to Suggest Second Date Ideas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>The best way to suggest a second date idea is to just take the initiative and ask her out.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a man, it\u2019s in your best interest to hold masculine frame and <em>invite her into your life for dates.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Men who think too much about getting her approval for dates run the risk of looking feminine, weak, and less manly.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Women want men to be bold, take the lead, and make the decisions. They want to be led, seduced, and pulled into the man\u2019s frame.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Need more information about this? 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